How to choose a lubricant?

Why can women consider sex an unpleasant activity? Why is anal sex still a big taboo in most couples' intimate lives? How to diversify the sex act and give it a different tone? These and other similar problems can be solved by one simple word - lubricant.

What is a lubricant and what is it used for?

During sexual intercourse, arousal and moisture of the genitals greatly influence the quality of the act. If a woman does not secrete enough natural lubricant, there is friction, stinging, and pleasure is replaced by pain and other unpleasant sensations. Lack of lubricity also makes condoms more likely to break. An anal act without lubricants is completely unimaginable, because natural body lubricant is not produced at all in this medium. And where is the additional pleasure of using various sex toys, which without lubricant can cause pain and even damage to the body.

Of course, one cannot deny the fact that the need for lubricant occurs more often in women who have given birth, who are going through menopause, and in the elderly, but in no way can it be called a disease. These are natural changes in the body that affect the quality of the sexual act, but for this, a multitude of tools have been created that can not only solve the problems that have arisen, but also help couples of various ages discover wider possibilities of sensations and pleasures.

After finding out what a lubricant is and what it is "eaten with", it is time to move on to the most difficult part: how to choose the type of lubricant that is most suitable for you? I suggest everyone who wants and has the opportunity to put aside their fears and shame, and just run to any "Aistros" store, where the consultants will be happy to help you choose the most suitable product. And for those who want to save time and choose a lubricant online, I suggest you take a little look at the main aspects.

Types of lubricants according to composition

First, let's categorize lubricants by composition/texture:

Water-based lubricants are probably the most popular lubricants, they are light, wash off quickly and easily with water, are perfect for use with all sex toys and do not harm latex condoms. Tends to be absorbed into the skin, which may require reapplying during intercourse.

Silicone-based lubricants are lubricants that create a silky feel film, which are long-lasting and suitable for use even in water, as they are more difficult to wash off. These lubricants are also suitable for use with condoms, they are not absorbed into the skin, so moisture is maintained throughout the act. True, they are not suitable for use with any silicone toys due to friction.

Hybrid water-silicone-based lubricants are less common experimental products that, due to the small amount of silicone, last significantly longer than water-based lubricants, but wash off more easily than silicone-based lubricants. These lubricants can even be used with some silicone sex toys. Also, their price is relatively lower than that of silicone-based lubricants.

Oil-based lubricants are rare and not very popular lubricants that are NOT suitable for use with latex condoms because they break down their surface. Also leaves stains.

It's not that complicated, is it? After choosing which base lubricant seems the most convenient and best suited to your needs, you should further consider WHAT the product will be used for.

Types of lubricants by purpose

Lubricants for oral sex. Lubricants that are usually offered for oral caress are flavored and scented and safe to eat. In this way, it is not only possible to eliminate potentially unpleasant odors (this does not mean that hygiene norms can be ignored!), but also to give the act more freedom to improvise.

Lubricants for vaginal sex. Vaginal sex is the type of intercourse with the largest selection of lubricants, as practically all types of lubricants are suitable for it. Of course, depending on your wishes, you can choose both a scented lubricant and one with an additional heat/cold effect, stimulating, desensitizing, etc.

For those who want to prolong the act, specially designed or cold lubricants are offered. Energizing lubricants accelerate blood circulation on the surface of the genitals and thus take you to the horizon of new sensations and a stronger orgasm. People with more sensitive skin can choose natural, organic or even vegan skin regenerating lubricants without artificial fragrances, dyes and irritants. It is also possible to choose products specially adapted for men and women, taking into account the differences between the sexes.

Lubricants for anal sex. Lubricants are distinguished for the anal act because they usually moisturize longer and more intensively, create a greater sensation of moisture and also soothe and relax the anal medium. With the help of these lubricants, you can also discover anal sex toys. True, an excessive amount of relaxing or desensitizing agents is not recommended, so as not to reduce attention to injuries.

Lubricants "2 in 1". Want a product that works for both massage and sex? Or perhaps both warming and stimulating? Flavorful and warming? All these options are designed to make it even easier to unleash your senses and imagination.


Lots of new information? True, but there is no need to panic. Lubricant is discovered by trial and error, by experimenting and exploring your body. Even price plays a role here, as the cheapest lube can often be more liquid, dries faster, and simply wears out faster. If there is a possibility of allergy, test the lubricant on a small area of ​​skin before use. You can also always choose a smaller or one-time package for testing the lubricant and not be afraid to throw money into the pool.

Good luck in your search and passionate new experiences!