What is BDSM?

BDSM is essentially a sexual practice based on discipline, control, submission and display of power. It should be noted that the purpose of BDSM is not to humiliate the partner, hurt him or otherwise humiliate him against his will. In fact, the goal is completely different, that is, to give pleasure to both your partner and yourself by mutual consent. It is a misconception that BDSM games always end in sex. If you think so too, then you will have to be disappointed, because for BDSM "games" meeting is possible, but not necessary. It should be noted that BDSM scenarios can be very diverse, as they directly depend on the needs and capabilities of the partners. However, there is only one dominant model, that is, the submissive obeys the dominant unconditionally to the best of his ability.

It may sound strange, but BDSM is, in a sense, an "art" consisting of several interrelated processes, heating the imagination and always arousing curiosity. Restraints, elements of sadism and masochism, clearly expressed dominance and submissiveness are the basis of mysterious BDSM.

The extremely clear distribution of power in BDSM "games" is considered the "heart" of these intimate games. The dominant "master" and the submissive "slave", acting in mutual agreement, "work" for a common goal, that is, pleasure. It should be noted that open communication is extremely important in BDSM games, because it is not difficult to cross the thin line that separates the pleasures of "play" from unwanted physical pain.

BDSM, as already mentioned, cannot be separated from sadism and masochism. People are different, so it's not surprising that they enjoy different things. BDSM "players" are often referred to as sadists, masochists, or sadomasochists. This is partly true because such "activities" involve enjoying, humiliating and inflicting pain on the partner, using whips, rims, whipping paddles, etc., and the partner enjoys the pain. It is important to note that the word "enjoy" in this context is used in its literal sense. The line between pleasure and serious physical injury is extremely thin, which is why BDSM "players" use safety words to indicate that the partner has reached the limits of their capabilities.

Restraints are a common and practically integral part of BDSM. The word "restraint" certainly doesn't sound enticing, but research shows that it's one of the most common sexual fantasies of adults. Special shackles, ropes and handcuffs make restraint smoother and safer. Most often, the submissive's hands are bound, but the legs can also be bound. It is said that the feeling of "deprived" freedom and complete surrender to the dominant "player" gives immense pleasure not only to the dominant, but also to the submissive.